What do you expect?
You've been playing a musical instrument for six months now
and you don't sound like your musical hero who inspired you to start playing
music. What's the deal?
You, like many before you have suddenly discovered learning
to play a musical instrument is harder than you thought it would be. It's not just those wishing to play music who
make this discovery. How many people
have watched Tiger Woods swing a club into a ball which then lands on the green
and rolls back to the hole, and think "I can do that." They go out
and buy the same clubs Tiger uses, read all the golf magazines, push the golf
tee into the grass, stand behind the ball and approach it just like they have
seen the pros do, take a couple of practice swings and a deep breath and knock
the ball into the ground twenty feet in front of them, or fifty yards to the
right into the window of a homeowner who regrets being talked into the
"beautiful view" of the first tee.
How easy did Bob Ross make it look to paint a fluffy cloud
and a happy little tree, when your attempts (while watching him do it and
explain how easy it was) turned out looking "very similar to the one that
elephant painted" which you rightfully don’t take as a complement?
The point being, learning any specialized skill is
hard. The more specialized, the harder
it is. The more proficient your hero is,
the easier they make it look. You are
currently at the point where a decision has to be made. Am I going to stick with it now that I
realize how difficult it really is? This
is the point where many of the less devoted answer no. This is where all those used musical
instruments find their way onto Craigslist, Ebay and Reverb, or just tucked into
the closet behind the golf shoes and paint easel. Fender’s CEO released a staggering stat: “The
attrition rate among first-time players amazes me," he says. "90%
abandon the instrument after 12 months."
Just think of that. 90% had enough interest to buy an instrument only to give up entirely twelve months later. They were sold on the idea that all you had to do was buy a guitar and
amp, and you would be headlining festivals in no time, that if you were able to
get a top score on Guitar Hero, the real thing would be a snap. They spent the first week slinging the guitar
precariously over one shoulder while practicing their "power stance"
in the mirror, the next week split between cranking the distortion knob and
bending the strings as far as they would go.
The third week they tried to learn the first power chord, that's when
things started to get hard and the realization hit that this was going to take
work.
Not to discourage you even further but, no matter how long
you've been playing or how good you get, it is always going to take work not
only to get better, but to maintain what you've learned. It does get a little easier though. And as you improve your skills while others
around you trade in their guitar for the next easier adventure, you start to
feel a sense of accomplishment when all the notes in the bar chord sound clear,
or that solo you've played over and over is almost up to full speed. People start to complement you on how far
you've come. You see new players
struggling with the same things you did, and remember how hard that used to be.
You start to feel really good about sticking with this whole music thing. This is a lot of fun. You're invited to bring
your guitar to the next bonfire, and you’re confident they don't mean for you
to throw it in. Then you meet a ten year
old kid who's only been playing eight months doing things you'll never be able
to do.
The thing to remember is that that doesn't change any of
those things above. There will always be
someone better than you. That doesn't
take away from how much you have accomplished or how much enjoyment you get with
that accomplishment. I've also found
that it's right about that time when you feel you've hit a plateau and aren’t
getting any better that you suddenly have a breakthrough. Your dedication is tested before you're
rewarded with more success... Then bam! How did I do that? That sounded really
cool... “Hey honey, listen to this...” “Yes dear I've heard it.” “No, I was playing it like this... But I just
came up with this on my own...” “Very good dear...”
“It is good isn't it?”
Now you can justify buying that new guitar you've been
looking at.